waste o time place

so miss lucifire is performing tonite. (and tomorrow). but it's got to be tonite since tomorrow is sold out
heading out with madmaxtattoo to check out her show and this club antichrist thing. i dunno. i have a headache though.
and i need to nap, but it's good to go out once in a while

but then i just got this from Dad:

Uncle Pak passed away Thursday, April 24, at approximately 8:45 in the
 morning.  He is being cremated & his ashes will be spread off the
 Monterey coast in 40 days.  We are having a viewing of his body today at 2pm
 & a memorial service in Yuki Emo's church tomorrow evening at 6pm.

Love,
Dad

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I'm such an idiot sometimes. During my last stay in Cali during the SF fetishball weekend, 
i never made the time to walk over (they lived directly across the street pretty much).
we knew it was going to happen soon, 
but i thought (stupidly) that he'd hang on longer than the doctors' expectations.
he did find some energy to laugh when we went to go buy marijuana for him.


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TG Rome is out for me. I am still considering Munich for BoundCon (work)
but then it's back to the states earlier rather than later in June for the services 
after that, down to Los Angeles for the photoworkshop.